What does it mean by being Friends
This shall be a post, insipired by what Kiat Kai posted, and of what had being going on around me for times.
要开始说的话，那就从最近认识的朋友说起吧。
Its being fun, that knowing people online, getting to know that they are of the same interest with you. You share the same thoughts, you share the same interests, you share the same height which brought you throught life. But all you know of him/she might just be a nick name which appears on the particular channel. Soon you meet up with him/she to find out that you actually had crossings with he/she before in your life. But never know till you two finally chatted on the Internet.
However, While you soon stay with this person, you reliase that his/she is of different background, of a different birth right or place from you, you feel a difference which still seperates the two of you, he/she might feel it too, but both of you just ignored to enjoy the fun you guys feel best. Playing, Singing, Watching Movie, going out for a meal, meeting up after work and more.
But soon you felt the difference still tears a part off you, and you felt the same off the other party. And soon it fells to static and no one starts to meet up. The atmosphere starts to change and when you last knew it, that person merely returned to the same nickname, on the same channel. Which is the same for you.
What my point in the previous chapter is happening now, in real life, be it on me or on others. Its right now happening. What is sad about this, is that people care too much about differences and faults. Which can never remove as long as people choose to compare with other things.
For me, this online community i have being with thus far, had being fun. Made new friends, gain new knowledge, but still till now, all i can say about most of them is that, it just resumes back to the nickname i see, every time i log on, under my nickname which people know me as (even in real life people do call me by that nickname).
Its sad, how human have evolved till now, the sad truth of their ownself of not able to allow difference between each other stays. Cases happen here and there, sometimes people just cant accept others easily. It always take some sudden surprises to make some people change, but most of the time, its too late for salvation.
What i felt that being friends, is of people, not related to you, able to share all your joy, your sadness, your burden, while you do so for them. Caring for them while they look out for you. In a platonic and Mutual way. Not for any benificial purposes but just for the sake and for the point of being "Friends".
If you were to key in "Friends" in Wikipedia, the first refered topic would surprises you.
Its "Friends : an American situation comedy". Surprising? Surprising to me too. When looked under the "Friends (disambiguation)" section, the only closest thing you have is "friendship".
And most of those things under that column is mostly bullshit concening to the term "Friends".
Why else do they teach or tell you about Declining of a Friendship!
ITs bullshit.
What i felt sad about, is that when it comes to friendships now adays, its not as "pure" as what it is in the past after all. Like what kiat kai said, besides the computer which will not betray him, but just gives some errors, everyday's interaction with others is a close combat of whether you will get something bad coming back to you or not. Its not a nice thing issint it?
Its being manipluated, twisted, altered to suit to someone's favour, but at someone's disfavour. And this does not change, it turns to tyrany and soon evolved to Slavery. Why does this happend? When someone keeps demanding in the name of "Friendship". Personally i belive that there should be a Give and take policy all the time. But its a "Give" when you can and never expect when to "Take". Why expect? Let it comes as a surprise, issint that even greater than knowing it coming?
Its always like this, that people wish others to do nice things for them, but never helping others back. If someone offers to help, but cant help all the way, give that guy some credit, he tried to help but cant thats all, but why the rent?
"That fool tried to help, but his just a piece of stool infront of it after all, speaking of help he should just STFU in the first place."
Thats what people always get, instead. Sad truth, sad Reality, Sad face of fact everyone has to face throught.
With the internet growing like this days, soon people will interact less and lesser. Till the point where soon no one goes on the street, no one whispers a good luck around to those around them, no one blessing someone when sneezing, no more warmth. The city will be dead, and those emotions will only be expressed online, where only "Un-Real" relationships, across people who fight on games while each aims for their own piece of item which they will take after getting it, and signing off to avoid those who partied with him for it. Across people whom give other players because other "Female" players asked for it, and some suckers just send their own treasure vault up for them, never knowing if they are female in real life at first. The most common Emotion seen will be Anger, Shooting and Flaming with almost every vulgrities they can muster and also more and more emots and macros which could replace the whole of English lanuage to be surfaced.
This is what this world will turn out to be, if all of us should follow this way.
With all those backstabbing and throttling of faith and trust
With all those who take and never give
with all those who lies and cheats they way out
I have nothing much about them as compared to my own situation of Social Circle.
My social circle has always being easy to figure out.
Secondary School Friends, Poly Friends, Online Friends, Workplace Friends, My family.
ITs all of them, which i do care, My life has never being a dull with them around, which contributed to my personality as of now. Even thought there will be people who hate me, i will always have friends to standby me. Even thought they might be busy, but they are still there, as they recognise and acknowledge me as their friend, I will too do my best, to be your friend.
Last, this shall be a song, which lingers long enough in my trusty zen, which kinda remind me of my feelings in the past, during special occasions. Enjoy, for those who read this.
A Drop of Tenderness
Uverworld
===================================================================
I thought that even though sometimes
Our feelings didn't match up, the end would never come
But now you're gone
The thread is cut off
No matter how loud I yell, I can't go back there
Even if I love the times
We walk along together holding hands
The closer we get to our dreams, the further apart we become
We said
It was so we could each make our dreams come true
Yo, listen to me
I found a drip in my heart
And I called it "forever"
Oh, it's fake and An inviting word, in other words
Crack in the middle of that passion
Because 'cause I want you
Live alone, live alone, live alone
You always Were able to spot me just from seeing my back
As I walked through a crowd of people
But now you don't even realize "you seem so far away"
Though you're passing right by me
The small words that wounded you
Now make such a painful sound
A drop of tenderness, the last drop
It hits me, dark red like blood
You chose to live alone
So you wouldn't hurt or get hurt
Even when my heart can forgive
It's all just unskilled lies
Live alone, live alone, live alone
I kept thinking
That even though our feelings never matched up
The end would never come
I'll carve it on my heart
This drop that washes away
No matter how loud I yell, I can't go back there
You always
Were able to spot me just from seeing my back
As I walked through a crowd of people
But now you don't even realize that I'm standing right in front of you
Though you're passing right by me
(I can't go back)
Now I can hear
Those words you almost said that day
"I'm in you"
(You've got a place in me, that's forever)
I hold on to the same words
So they don't disappear
Something more than words that won't disappear, more than words ah
Something more than words that won't disappear, more than words ah
More than words
===================================================================
有时总觉得，朋友之间，还是花点时间给自己一个人静静的放松一下。。。。
要开始说的话，那就从最近认识的朋友说起吧。
Its being fun, that knowing people online, getting to know that they are of the same interest with you. You share the same thoughts, you share the same interests, you share the same height which brought you throught life. But all you know of him/she might just be a nick name which appears on the particular channel. Soon you meet up with him/she to find out that you actually had crossings with he/she before in your life. But never know till you two finally chatted on the Internet.
However, While you soon stay with this person, you reliase that his/she is of different background, of a different birth right or place from you, you feel a difference which still seperates the two of you, he/she might feel it too, but both of you just ignored to enjoy the fun you guys feel best. Playing, Singing, Watching Movie, going out for a meal, meeting up after work and more.
But soon you felt the difference still tears a part off you, and you felt the same off the other party. And soon it fells to static and no one starts to meet up. The atmosphere starts to change and when you last knew it, that person merely returned to the same nickname, on the same channel. Which is the same for you.
What my point in the previous chapter is happening now, in real life, be it on me or on others. Its right now happening. What is sad about this, is that people care too much about differences and faults. Which can never remove as long as people choose to compare with other things.
For me, this online community i have being with thus far, had being fun. Made new friends, gain new knowledge, but still till now, all i can say about most of them is that, it just resumes back to the nickname i see, every time i log on, under my nickname which people know me as (even in real life people do call me by that nickname).
Its sad, how human have evolved till now, the sad truth of their ownself of not able to allow difference between each other stays. Cases happen here and there, sometimes people just cant accept others easily. It always take some sudden surprises to make some people change, but most of the time, its too late for salvation.
What i felt that being friends, is of people, not related to you, able to share all your joy, your sadness, your burden, while you do so for them. Caring for them while they look out for you. In a platonic and Mutual way. Not for any benificial purposes but just for the sake and for the point of being "Friends".
If you were to key in "Friends" in Wikipedia, the first refered topic would surprises you.
Its "Friends : an American situation comedy". Surprising? Surprising to me too. When looked under the "Friends (disambiguation)" section, the only closest thing you have is "friendship".
And most of those things under that column is mostly bullshit concening to the term "Friends".
Why else do they teach or tell you about Declining of a Friendship!
ITs bullshit.
What i felt sad about, is that when it comes to friendships now adays, its not as "pure" as what it is in the past after all. Like what kiat kai said, besides the computer which will not betray him, but just gives some errors, everyday's interaction with others is a close combat of whether you will get something bad coming back to you or not. Its not a nice thing issint it?
Its being manipluated, twisted, altered to suit to someone's favour, but at someone's disfavour. And this does not change, it turns to tyrany and soon evolved to Slavery. Why does this happend? When someone keeps demanding in the name of "Friendship". Personally i belive that there should be a Give and take policy all the time. But its a "Give" when you can and never expect when to "Take". Why expect? Let it comes as a surprise, issint that even greater than knowing it coming?
Its always like this, that people wish others to do nice things for them, but never helping others back. If someone offers to help, but cant help all the way, give that guy some credit, he tried to help but cant thats all, but why the rent?
"That fool tried to help, but his just a piece of stool infront of it after all, speaking of help he should just STFU in the first place."
Thats what people always get, instead. Sad truth, sad Reality, Sad face of fact everyone has to face throught.
With the internet growing like this days, soon people will interact less and lesser. Till the point where soon no one goes on the street, no one whispers a good luck around to those around them, no one blessing someone when sneezing, no more warmth. The city will be dead, and those emotions will only be expressed online, where only "Un-Real" relationships, across people who fight on games while each aims for their own piece of item which they will take after getting it, and signing off to avoid those who partied with him for it. Across people whom give other players because other "Female" players asked for it, and some suckers just send their own treasure vault up for them, never knowing if they are female in real life at first. The most common Emotion seen will be Anger, Shooting and Flaming with almost every vulgrities they can muster and also more and more emots and macros which could replace the whole of English lanuage to be surfaced.
This is what this world will turn out to be, if all of us should follow this way.
With all those backstabbing and throttling of faith and trust
With all those who take and never give
with all those who lies and cheats they way out
I have nothing much about them as compared to my own situation of Social Circle.
My social circle has always being easy to figure out.
Secondary School Friends, Poly Friends, Online Friends, Workplace Friends, My family.
ITs all of them, which i do care, My life has never being a dull with them around, which contributed to my personality as of now. Even thought there will be people who hate me, i will always have friends to standby me. Even thought they might be busy, but they are still there, as they recognise and acknowledge me as their friend, I will too do my best, to be your friend.
Last, this shall be a song, which lingers long enough in my trusty zen, which kinda remind me of my feelings in the past, during special occasions. Enjoy, for those who read this.
A Drop of Tenderness
Uverworld
===================================================================
I thought that even though sometimes
Our feelings didn't match up, the end would never come
But now you're gone
The thread is cut off
No matter how loud I yell, I can't go back there
Even if I love the times
We walk along together holding hands
The closer we get to our dreams, the further apart we become
We said
It was so we could each make our dreams come true
Yo, listen to me
I found a drip in my heart
And I called it "forever"
Oh, it's fake and An inviting word, in other words
Crack in the middle of that passion
Because 'cause I want you
Live alone, live alone, live alone
You always Were able to spot me just from seeing my back
As I walked through a crowd of people
But now you don't even realize "you seem so far away"
Though you're passing right by me
The small words that wounded you
Now make such a painful sound
A drop of tenderness, the last drop
It hits me, dark red like blood
You chose to live alone
So you wouldn't hurt or get hurt
Even when my heart can forgive
It's all just unskilled lies
Live alone, live alone, live alone
I kept thinking
That even though our feelings never matched up
The end would never come
I'll carve it on my heart
This drop that washes away
No matter how loud I yell, I can't go back there
You always
Were able to spot me just from seeing my back
As I walked through a crowd of people
But now you don't even realize that I'm standing right in front of you
Though you're passing right by me
(I can't go back)
Now I can hear
Those words you almost said that day
"I'm in you"
(You've got a place in me, that's forever)
I hold on to the same words
So they don't disappear
Something more than words that won't disappear, more than words ah
Something more than words that won't disappear, more than words ah
More than words
===================================================================
有时总觉得，朋友之间，还是花点时间给自己一个人静静的放松一下。。。。
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