New Year, Whats new?

So, What have you done for new year?

I went for a count down dinner, with a group of friends, strolled around the city area, Squeezed throught a Horde of People to get to see and video the fire works.

And walked a big round being led by the crowd, and end of at places where i did not plan to go at all, rested and ate supper, walked back to grab a Night Rider back.

When on my way back, i've reliased a few things which i felt, shld be thrown out to set things right.

What is the things driving everyone?
Ive spoken to nic, about the heights everyone feels for the new year.
It begins from an anticipation, to a hype, moved on to the climax, post climax, and the anti climax which is Ended with a Void.

The anticipation, is where the emotional energy is stored, and keep on piling it over and over again. When it hits the Hype level, it causes the person to feel excited, way more than the Anticipation level, partially due to the closing of the event. The Climax, where the energy is released, and bursts out. When it reaches the Post climax, partial of the energy is still there and then when it hits the anti climax, a negative feeling arouses. due to the slowly release of the energy and the depletion will led to a void, where people will end up just wanting something simple, like going home to sleep or some where to rest.

When i look at it, althought it feels inhumane to put human emotion to this kind of energy level theory, but its true in a sense for me as there is a behaviour pattern for all human when they are facing different stimulant. Its different for people to people but it is the true standard, when traced down to the roots, the expression is the same throught out.

And when i felt it this way. I kinda feel the reason why in the end, in a relationship. It will end if the relationship starts, and continues the same way.

The reason why people and people can be together as friends or family and lovers, are throught constant touching of another's life and heart. A saying goes like this "Never give me you heart, its not what i want. Never will i give you my heart, as it will not be of your liking. Together we shall, share our hearts. For that is what we worked for"

It is why now a days people are more attached sometimes, by the factors displayed by another party, while love blinds them of their short coming, or being rushed to make a judgement before finally reliasing and stamping a classification on the person. They do not try to discover whats under, they merely go for whats on the surface.

And also the understanding of another. People do not try to understand others but wants others to Understand them all the time, and take care of himself/herself and knows what himself/herself is thinking all the time. This fuel to the rapid Marriage and Divorce, Aka Shotgun Marriage in this society. Reasons for Divorce ranging from "Not suitable for each other afterall" to something as simple as "He/she was not who he/she is before marriage".

Sad to say that althought this is the new year, its something i starting to see from people. Maybe i should have some happy thoughts instead, but nevermind. Im tired and i want to sleep. Maybe after a good rest i am going to have a better view of the world. From a new world view, and another perspective.